You’re Wrong! Whatever it is you “think” you know about Online Dating toss it out the window and kiss those thoughts goodbye. For all you silly skeptics who say online dating is only for those who cannot find a date in “real life,” I have news for you: Online dating is real life, and you only give it a thumbs down because you’re scared of it!
I do not fault you for your opinion as we all have a fear of the unknown. As insecure humans by nature, we have a tendency to “play it safe” so we’ll always win, which is good, right? Wrong! You’ve heard it before and I’ll say it again – “No Risk, No Reward!”
More people are meeting online in this day and age than ever before and it is a fabulous invention we should all embrace. I implore you to put your big girl panties on and give online dating a twirl. The magic you create and the connections you build through online dating can enrich your life beyond measure. After all, we are on this planet to love and feel loved. What else is there? Without love, can you really be living? Find your match so you can start living life to the fullest.
Look! There is no need to fear the unknown anymore. Here is exactly what the Ona trazi njega experience is like with a step by step direction guide:
Step 1: Don’t hesitate anymore, quickly join the best free online dating website on the planet, TODAY. While I could write pages about the different online dating companies on the internet, most of them are garbage. Stay away from them. Read to the end of this article if you want to know which website tickles my fancy!
Step 2: Build your profile. Your profile is an advertisement for you, similar to a resume, but a lot more fun! Show off, have confidence, and tell everybody what you love about yourself. Wheaties Cereal claim to be the, “Breakfast of Champions.” What are you?
Step 3: Click on the “Search” feature on your online dating website. This function works like customizing a new car purchase online. If you have never customized a car online before, try it. Building your dream car – it’s fun. Choose the color of your car, if you want leather or fabric seats, sunroof, automatic windows etc. In this instance of “search,” build your dream partner – its even more fun that building a car! Blond hair, makes 250k+ a year, athletic, likes hiking, wants kids someday etc. Now hit “Submit”
Step 4: Wow! Look at your results. Not only does every person listed have the attributes your looking for in your dream partner, but every person is just-like-you and looking for their perfect match. These are quality dating leads waiting to hear from you. Now, you get to window shop! Click on the picture of somebody you like and view their profile page. Read their specifications and see if you like what they have to offer you and your personality. This process is like reading the sticker price sheet at a car dealership. On every new car, the prices are itemized by options, and they’re usually stuck on the car windshields for your viewing pleasure. Each car is built a certain way, and as you’re viewing the specifications, internally you’re deciding which are important to you, and which are not. Eventually you’ll decide on your perfect combination of options as it relates to the price of the car. This is the same with online dating. Find the person that has a favored combination you like, and remember them. Many dating websites allow you to bookmark users under a “favorites” tab.
Step 5: Never judge a book by its cover and never buy a car without checking under the hood. After you pick 7 or 8 potential matches from your search results, you need to research members directly by sending them “tickles,” which are quick questions, or personal emails. Emails are a great way to demonstrate interest because it shows effort. It also provides you with the opportunity to solicit a response with open ended questions. If a member has return interested in you, it is up to them to “sell” you on their personality with a reply. Talking to potential matches is like test driving a car. Don’t buy a car unless you test drive it, and don’t expect to go on a date with anybody unless you’ve tested their personality. They are going to test you too, so be honest and on your best behavior.
Step 6: Evaluate the responses from the 7 or 8 people you have attempted to communicate with and see if anybody has held your interest. If nobody has, go back to Step 4 and pick 7 to 8 new people to prospect. If you do have growing interest in a particular people, congratulations, you are on the verge of forming new meaningful relationships in your life. Keep exchanging emails, chatting online, and asking light hearted open ended questions with these people. What you’re doing here is interviewing your potential match to see if they are who they say they are on their personality resume, as well as whether they are compatible with your personality. This stage is very exciting, so enjoy it, but do not let it go on for too long. Time kills deals. Sooner or later you’re going to have to take the next step.
Step 7: Now comes the hard part: taking your relationship from the digital world into the real world. This is the hardest thing to do because it is the first time the “fear of rejection” comes into play. At this stage, remember two things. 1) They feel about you the way you feel about them. Trust me. 2) They are just as nervous as you. Now is not the time to have cold feet. Now is the time to be courageous, step up and initiate the next level in the relationship. If you do not take control of your life, who will? Once you find this courage, the hard part is over. Now for the easy part: taking action. “Hey, lets get together. Nothing fancy, just coffee to start out with. You seem like a great person and I would like to meet you. How about 1pm this Saturday at XYZ coffee shop?” It’s that easy.
Step 8: The Date! Yes, it is real. You’re going on a date with somebody you find attractive who is interested and attracted to you too. Love it!! You have online dating to thank for this great opportunity.
These 8 steps describe the core functionality of any dating website and what you can expect from your first foray into the online dating world. The process is easy, non-confrontational and a very successful tool that is available for free. In reality, the success of online dating will come down to you, your confidence and your courage to try something new. Remember, you have nothing to lose but that lonely feeling of wanting to meet somebody special. Take the risk, and reap the rewards.